sys.monitoring use_tool_id exception #2187

Describe the bug
If coverage.py with the sys.monitoring API is used at the same time as another tool is using it to collect coverage, an unhandled exception will be raised:

ValueError: tool 1 is already in use

To Reproduce
Using Python 3.12+

# repro.py
import sys
import coverage


tool_id = sys.monitoring.COVERAGE_ID
sys.monitoring.use_tool_id(tool_id, "another coverage tool")

cov = coverage.Coverage(config_file=False)
cov.start()

$ COVERAGE_CORE=sysmon python repro.py

Expected behavior
The Exception is handled instead of exiting the process.

Additional context
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