fix: Electron dependency path for PnP - #3622

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Summarize your changes:

• use require.resolve
• remove PnP loader arguments from process.env.NODE_OPTIONS with utils.parseArgs (introduced with Node.js v18.3.0)

Related #3209

Fix #3611