[FEA] neo4j apoc arrow reads & writes #233

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Neo4j, via APOC, is getting arrow reads/writes, which should be faster & safer to use than pandas<-bolt->neo4j! See discussion: neo4j-contrib/neo4j-apoc-procedures#1859

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Ideally, the api does not change (g.cypher("...").plot()), with ._nodes : dataframe / ._edges : dataframe getting extracted directly . Detection may be tricky, so we might add a flag to .bolt() / .cypher() for with_apoc_arrow=True, something like that.

The basic meta items seem to be:

• reads
• writes
• api design
• docs
• correctness testing (see neo4j in ci)
• perf testing (see neo4j in ci)
• announce! if this works as intended, this should be epic!

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