Stay connected to the people who matter most.
Simmer helps you stay connected to the people who matter. With gentle reminders, journaling, and streaks, it turns your contact list into a warm, living network without the noise of social media.
Coming soon to iPhone and Android.
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A small daily habit
You set the goal: reach out to one to five people a day. Easy to understand, hard to keep up on your own. Simmer holds you to it, a few minutes at a time.
A gentle nudge
Each morning Simmer nudges you toward the goal you chose: follow through, follow up, or step up.
One person, with context
Open Simmer and it will remind you about someone from your contacts, context to jog your memory, suggested conversation starters, and topics you could reflect on.
Reach out, or skip
Decide to reach out to that person, or swipe to skip them for now and try someone else. It can be enough to just say, "Hi."
Pause and jot it down
After you connect, Simmer helps you remember to pause for a moment and capture notes, and set follow up topics with due dates.
Reach your goal for the day
Keep going, connect or skip forward until you hit your outreach goal for the day.
Everyone stays close
Show up like this, one small touch at a time, and your whole network stays warm.
A gentle nudge
Each morning Simmer nudges you toward the goal you chose: follow through, follow up, or step up.
One person, with context
Open Simmer and it will remind you about someone from your contacts, context to jog your memory, suggested conversation starters, and topics you could reflect on.
Reach out, or skip
Decide to reach out to that person, or swipe to skip them for now and try someone else. It can be enough to just say, "Hi."
Pause and jot it down
After you connect, Simmer helps you remember to pause for a moment and capture notes, and set follow up topics with due dates.
Reach your goal for the day
Keep going, connect or skip forward until you hit your outreach goal for the day.
Everyone stays close
Show up like this, one small touch at a time, and your whole network stays warm.
Pro-social. Anti-media.
Presence
Showing up makes all the difference
Staying connected shouldn't take effort, just intention. Simmer helps you follow through.
Simplicity
Stay in touch without the noise.
Simmer cuts the clutter and reminds you who to reach out to when it matters.
Accountability
Because relationships fade without care.
Friendly streaks and trends help you stay accountable to your social health. Set a small reaonable daily outreach goal, and Simmer helps you meet it.
Reciprocity
Networking is not self-promotion.
Being available for others creates the strongest connections. Become the kind of person people can ask for help.
You don't need more content.
Simmer focuses on connections, not content.
Simmer is not
Not another messaging app.
Simmer doesn't replace how you talk to people. It helps you remember them.
Not another brain rot or ad feed.
No sponsored posts, no algorithmic timelines. Just the people you actually know.
Not another invasion of privacy.
Simmer works for you and your data is your own. We don't sell your data.
Simple pricing
One plan. Free to try.
The complete app, on iPhone or Android. Free for 3 days, then about the cost of a coffee each month. No feed and no ads, ever.
- No ads
- No feed
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